al-dabaran signifies our need to deal with family issues and indicates argument and anger. its appearance often signifies chaos, enmity, struggle and conflict. it can be an indication of strength, too. but the situation requires restraint, lest we succumb to violence, either physical or emotional.  betrayals within the family are among the harshest, and the most challenging to forgive and overcome. it requires commitment to mourn and honor the loss of love, within the mind of our inner child. especially mourning the love we believe we are owed from our first primary relationships. as ram dass noted:  “think you’re so enlightened? spend 2 weeks with your family.”